วันเสาร์ที่ 28 เมษายน พ.ศ. 2550

Seven tips to be successful in doing anything.

The following tips are from my personal research through books, articles, seminars on the subject of success.There are some particular characters that separate successful people from the rest.The points here are mentionedagain and again by the top experts in this field and others. Here are the tips:
Tip 1 : Decide what you want in life.
This very simple step fails many people. Only a few of us know what we want in life. The rest has vaque image of the things they want. Some are led by the circumstance. This is why we heard a lot on people blaming on the situation or disadvantage they have.There is slim chance of we bump into what we want unpurposely. What we wantsin each particular area of our life, finacially, physically, spiritually or in the relationships with others.This ultimate purpose or mission will lead you all the way to the place you want. After you decide what you want,you need to give yourself the reason why you want it. This is very essential because the reason will make youraction powerful. If you have strong enough reason, nobody nor circumstance an stop you.
Tip 2 : Set up your goal.
Goal setting is always a major issue in this personal development area. We all know that we are controlled by the direction we are heading. Goal is like the spot on the map where we need to go to. Write down your goals will empower it and remind you of what the purpose of your action. Keep your goal where you can always see. Many people succeed by putting their goal sheet in their wallets and pick it up to take a look every once in awhile.
Tip 3: Break down your goal into minor goals.
This step is how a lot of people who have goal written down still can not meet their need. Because most people have big goal and it may take quite a long time to achieve big goal. Many people give up before they approach it because there is no motivation to help them keep doing. The minor goals can make people feel satisfied once they accomplish a small goals.These miniature goals can merge to be the big goal in a long run.
Tip 4 :Take action , do the best you can.
Once you have goals, the next question we need to have to ourselves is how we can achieve our goals. How means actions. There is a secret of doing anything which many gurus have taught. Whatever you do, put your whole heart onto it. Be present. Think that you will do this for your utmost beloved one.And if youb do not do it well enough, your daring will die. This is rather exaggerating but it is true that to do your best will change all concerned in your situaiton.We all know that we are successful in what we do, not what we want or wish. Doing make things happen. However, many people do not what to do things because they need to be out of their comfort zone. That is not desirable for them. People fail because they do not do what they are supposed to do. They don't want to do because they are nothappy to do it. How we can make us to be happier doing things? We will be happy if we can do things good. That will happen if you do it with all your heart.
Tip 5 : Keep record , review it and take necessary change if needed.
Always keep your journal and write down what you do, encounter, feel and think of the situation. If you perform an activity,keep record of the result and how it can be better next time. The record will help you evaluate yourself against the situation.People fail to do this because they are ashamed of the result and do not want to be reminded of their failure.This is however the key to all the big innovations in the history. All good scientists keep the record of their experiments which are mostly unsuccessful ones. But they keep it and review it so that they know what to do differently in their next action and next and next actions.
Tip 6 : Never give up.
This sounds trite but it is true. You may say " Not again, I have heard all of it. This unquitting motto is so boring.This is the quality of every successful persons have to have.We need to understand the process of doing anything takes time and step to develop. Failing in this sense is stopping after a few attempts. However, not getting what you want the first few times of your actions is very common and almost is mandatory in the process of success.
Tip 7 : Have faith in yourself.
You are the most important in this world. Everybody in this world was born with special characters or qualities that others don't have.The belief and trust in yourself enhance the power in doing anything. In addition, visualize yourself as an important person and being successful.
The process may not be too unfamiliar to most of us. However, many of us ignore that or not really have it in mind. Let's be aware that we all have enough resources to accomplish whatever we want.
The seven tips were concluded out of the studies of many writings from renowned authors.We know that success can be learned and practiced.The method here has been proven to help million of people achieve what they want.It includes psychology of winning, goal setting and implementation.The theory was broken into seven easy steps to follow. Please see if the techniques can be applied to your situation and help you to be successful in doing anything.
Jim SomchaiManaging Director of JimSomchai Company.He devotes his time in studying success and has been interested in the works of many personal development leaders.
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